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  • Diegoboy
    Administrator
    • Mar 2007
    • 7244

    #1

    I lost the fight.

    Well, this morning marks the day that I lost the fight to hold my family together. My wife has decided to make a peaceful exit from our family unit. Trouble started in Feb 07, so I can say that I put up a good fight for the last 2 years & 8 months.
    "A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough."
    . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Bruce Lee. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .
  • domwilson
    Moderator
    • Apr 2007
    • 4408

    #2
    I am so sorry to hear that. I know it is a hard time for you and words can only cloud how you feel. I just hope you and your family get thru this ok.
    Government Moto:
    "Why fix it? Blame someone else for breaking it."

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    • rockwerks
      Senior Member
      • Jul 2008
      • 772

      #3
      That sucks, but I know exactly where you are coming from, keep your chin up
      an RC rock crawler lost in a sea of boat parts.........

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      • Chilli
        Fast Electric Addict!
        • Jan 2008
        • 3070

        #4
        Sorry to hear that Danny. I'm imagine there are not too many things in life more crappy to endure. It's going to take some time, but you will bounce back. Your family is in my prayers.
        Mike Chirillo
        www.capitolrcmodelboats.com

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        • Flying Scotsman
          Fast Electric Adict!
          • Jun 2007
          • 5190

          #5
          As long as it is peaceful and it remains that way and you are civil to each other and the kids are not drawn into a parental fight, it might be the right descion. I DO FEEL YOUR PAIN, been there.

          Douggie

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          • Doby
            KANADA RULES!
            • Apr 2007
            • 7280

            #6
            Sorry to hear that Danny; went through the same thing 6 years ago...it does get better though,,,,,,just takes a long time unfortunatley.
            Grand River Marine Modellers
            https://www.facebook.com/search/top/...ne%20modellers

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            • Ub Hauled
              Fast Electric Addict!
              • Aug 2007
              • 3031

              #7
              Sorry to hear that Danny, 2 years is a VERY good fight man... stay strong, it will get better...
              :::::::::::::::. It's NEVER fast enough! .:::::::::::::::

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              • Diegoboy
                Administrator
                • Mar 2007
                • 7244

                #8
                Thank you everyone. One thing I insisted on is that neither of us use our Daughter as a weapon to hurt the other. I pray that she matures someday & finds whatever she needs in life.
                "A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough."
                . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Bruce Lee. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

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                • Steven Vaccaro
                  Administrator
                  • Apr 2007
                  • 8720

                  #9
                  Sorry to hear that Danny.
                  Steven Vaccaro

                  Where Racing on a Budget is a Reality!

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                  • NitroVal
                    Senior Member
                    • Jun 2009
                    • 423

                    #10
                    Look at this way... At least you still got your boats...
                    The RTR Nightmare- Electric King of Shaves
                    Now with 540s- 62mph
                    New setup- Etti 150A's, Turnigy 2600s, 5S, X442s and a whole lot of cooling hoses

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                    • Flying Scotsman
                      Fast Electric Adict!
                      • Jun 2007
                      • 5190

                      #11
                      A question who starts up the bustuput and states you are out of my life. Lads we are strong

                      Douggie

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                      • Xzessperated
                        Fast Electric Addict!
                        • Apr 2008
                        • 3060

                        #12
                        Danny,
                        I am so sorry to hear your bad news. We all deal with it differently but I have been down the same road 2 times before and each time I had many tears at first and then went and got married again. Give your daughter all the love you can and she will give it back 10 times over as she gets older. We can all find a new wife but you can not replace kids. As some have said, try to keep it peaceful with your wife for the sake of your daughter.

                        You have a big family of brothers on OSE so call any one of us if you need us.
                        Several boats in various stages of destruction

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                        • ncornacchi
                          Senior Member
                          • Jul 2009
                          • 251

                          #13
                          Sorry to hear that kind of news Danno. Stay positive and channel all of your love to your daughter and your efforts to making your life a little bit better now. The wife will see some day what she is missing, and then you'll have an even bigger decision to make.

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                          • Diegoboy
                            Administrator
                            • Mar 2007
                            • 7244

                            #14
                            Originally posted by ncornacchi
                            ...and then you'll have an even bigger decision to make.
                            I don't want to know what that is, do I?
                            "A quick temper will make a fool of you soon enough."
                            . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .Bruce Lee. . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .

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                            • ncornacchi
                              Senior Member
                              • Jul 2009
                              • 251

                              #15
                              You do........ When someone needs their "space", and you give it to them, they soon realize that its' pretty empty out there, and it's not what they think it was gonna be. And then, they soon realize that what they had was actually better in the long-run, and they gave it up.....especially if you have the daughter with you. Then you have to decide if you are ready to take her back in....Hang in there and think positive, do not get down on yourself....Things happen for a reason

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