Well, this morning marks the day that I lost the fight to hold my family together. My wife has decided to make a peaceful exit from our family unit. Trouble started in Feb 07, so I can say that I put up a good fight for the last 2 years & 8 months.
Sorry to hear that Danny. I'm imagine there are not too many things in life more crappy to endure. It's going to take some time, but you will bounce back. Your family is in my prayers.
As long as it is peaceful and it remains that way and you are civil to each other and the kids are not drawn into a parental fight, it might be the right descion. I DO FEEL YOUR PAIN, been there.
Thank you everyone. One thing I insisted on is that neither of us use our Daughter as a weapon to hurt the other. I pray that she matures someday & finds whatever she needs in life.
Danny,
I am so sorry to hear your bad news. We all deal with it differently but I have been down the same road 2 times before and each time I had many tears at first and then went and got married again. Give your daughter all the love you can and she will give it back 10 times over as she gets older. We can all find a new wife but you can not replace kids. As some have said, try to keep it peaceful with your wife for the sake of your daughter.
You have a big family of brothers on OSE so call any one of us if you need us.
Sorry to hear that kind of news Danno. Stay positive and channel all of your love to your daughter and your efforts to making your life a little bit better now. The wife will see some day what she is missing, and then you'll have an even bigger decision to make.
You do........ When someone needs their "space", and you give it to them, they soon realize that its' pretty empty out there, and it's not what they think it was gonna be. And then, they soon realize that what they had was actually better in the long-run, and they gave it up.....especially if you have the daughter with you. Then you have to decide if you are ready to take her back in....Hang in there and think positive, do not get down on yourself....Things happen for a reason
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